xoxo, ur favorite crybaby
Hey what’s it mean when a girl tells you that you have a nice voice?
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She’s imagining how good your under the breath “fuck” is gonna sound when your dick is in her mouth
Anonymous asked:
Greatest lesson you've ever learned as a Dom?
youvebeenwarned answered:
That giving tasks to complete while I’m away makes all the difference in the world. It gives them something to think about so they don’t get anxious. It gives us something to talk about when I come home and it gives a reason for me to be proud when said tasks are accomplished. This in turn also boosts their confidence and strengthens the relationship. It’s really great to see how proud of themselves they get. Structure is so incredibly important and this is a simple lesson that really goes a long way.
Presence
Yesterday I dissolved into tears. Ugly tears. The kind that shake your body and make it hard to catch your breath.
There wasn’t any one thing that had gone wrong, instead there were a million small things, and months of stress brewing beneath the surface. Emotions began spilling over, and I was helpless to stop them.
At first my Dom and I were at odds. Our shared frustrations brought us to a bad headspace, where we were having trouble connecting. We were focusing on the problem at hand, and the possible solutions, and we lost sight of each other.
And then the magic of our dynamic took hold. He stepped back a moment, and was able to compose himself in a way I was completely incapable of. (By this point, I’m embarrassed to say, I had fallen into complete overwhelm.) In retrospect I know that he was able to act as he did because taking care of me was more important to him than how he was feeling at the time. When he came back he was no longer trying to reason with me, or even to calm me. What he offered me instead was presence.
The effect wasn’t instant, but there was a palpable shift as he took the reigns and the dynamic began to work it’s magic. Being at the office, and unable to simply step away, he turned his camera on so that I could see him. He reminded me that I am loved, and that caring for me is not a burden, even on days like this. He drew my attention to my collar and reminded me that I am never alone.
He worked, not to remedy the situation, but to bring me back to him. He removed the expectation that I had to hold things together, or even be rational. He reminded me that I am His, and that it’s not conditional. He took his place as my Dominant, and by doing so he allowed me to take my place as his submissive, and when we can find those places we can both find some peace.
This is better than all the kinky fuckery. Wouldn’t you agree, @instructor144 ?
Oh hell yes. This ☝️☝️☝️ is what it’s about, people. All of this.
THIS is what I crave about BDSM 😞 Sex and kink is great, but this kind of thing is what I NEED.
Well, I guess since I can’t post nakey photos anymore I’m gonna have to get real explicit with my erotica. I’ll start posting that here. 😏😈
REBLOG IF YOU’RE A NSFW BLOG
We all have seen the Tumblr communicate about forbidding nsfw blogs or those which have “adult” posts.
They think it won’t cause them any harm, but we are a really big part of the community. Let’s act and tell the staff that tumblr will slowly die after taking this decision. Follow these steps:
- First of all, REBLOG THIS POST, so any NSFW blog can post and see it.
- Give tumblr the worst mark at the App Store or Play Store
- Write a negative comment about how they’re banning accounts and censoring the freedom of expression.
- Purpose as a comment below a new site to move as a NSFW community.
If you do this before the 17 of December, we can change this decision. Let’s make the staff hear us. Make tumblr great again, a free place for free minds and free content!!
Personally, I enjoyed every single moment here at tumblr, and I appreciate everyone of my followers and blogs that I follow. If they delete my account… It was a pleasure to know you all. But we can still change this!!!
Regards!
Seriously, I love my followers and I am super sad. No idea where I will go from here.
Dear Tumblr,
Tumblr staff, I want you to know that I love my wife. She’s the one for me without a doubt. That being said, for the last year and a half our relationship has gone to a new level of openness and sexual fulfillment. We found Tumblr, set up separate accounts and used it as a tool to show each other more about ourselves. We learned more about each other’s sexuality in 18 months than we had in 8 years because of the openness and atmosphere of your app. For us, this app isn’t about exploiting people or trying to hook up or finding pleasure elsewhere. It’s about using information and finding friends that encourage us to grow together and become stronger partners. I’m disappointed in your decision to ban the content that so many people have used to grow and even learn how to be comfortable with who they are. It’s easy to be angry and send memes and make fun of this decision, but in the end it’s sad. It’s disheartening that your knee jerk decision is shutting down this community that thrives within itself and really doesn’t press its views on anyone else.
What he said!👆🏻
I learned more about my sexuality and how to feel fulfilled in my daily life in 3 months on my Tumblr than I did google searching for the last 3 years. This sexually open community was welcoming to those who didn’t have people in their life to talk to about sexually taboo subjects. Taking all content takes all understanding and ability to safely learn about such things. This is a very sad time for this small community of people from all walks of life.. I’ve learned so much and gained a lot of respect for people I will probably never meet in person. Thank you all for opening my eyes to my own personal kinks and interests ❤